Q: How did you feel after your big chop? My family, friends, and BF are used to me having long hair, and every time I mention cutting my hair they say I’ll look like man. How did you deal with people making rude comments after your big chop? I’m scared
A: There were a couple of times after I big chopped and I felt a little boyish, but I was like…meh, it is what it is. It’s hair, it grows back, I got over it. No one really made rude comments to me – I maybe got a few, but for the most part people know better than to speak to me like that. And I mean…how stupid is it to make fun of someone for having short hair, it won’t even be short in a year or two! However, they’ll have to live with that attitude and that face for quite some time…unless they want to go under the knife or get the therapy they need. People who put others down for the hell of it aren’t worth worrying about anyway. I try to keep positive people around me so I can give back the positivity. My motto is – no stress, stress stunts your hair growth!
Seriously…think of how silly they are being. This is my hair last June (which I actually loved btw):
And here’s my hair today:
So I mean like…who’s laughing now? Tell them to go sit down somewhere, and concentrate on feeling great about yourself.